All the old cliches like "what a small world" and "fancy meeting you" all apply to this chapter.
Just days after `posting` a FB message to Dave Alexander I bump into the guy `face to face`.
Not only do I bump into Dave just days after hearing about the Lords `encounter` in Rayleigh...but yesterday a member of my family meets up `Michelle A` and `Ab A`.
Thus proving it really is a small world...and that life is full of coincidences...as it was Michelle A...along with Aiden D...who were the first to tell me/my family all about julie and grimson`s affair.
I am walking back from the Dry Cleaners opposite Laindon Station when I hear cries of "Garry Johnson"...followed by "Gal"...as I look around a top of the range black jeep mounts the pavement - its Dave Alexander.
He says:
"I met julie the other night...well a few months ago...I went with a few mates to Lords in Rayleigh.
I`m standing there minding my own business...and this blonde bird" (his desription - as I dont use the word bird - never have).
What is he going to say I wonder?
Dave;
"This blonde bird pokes me in the chest and asks if I remembered her...when I said `no`...she goes...`I`m julie...Garry Johnson`s ex-wife`.
I`m werent sure at first because she looked different...but it was her...she then asked if I`d seen you and I made out I hadnt.
She went on slagging you off for about 2 hours...saying you was mad...dangerous...that you`d cracked up and was mentally ill"
He added:
"She had this right ugly bird with her who kept putting her face right into mine...it was really pissing me off.
I bought her a drink but nothing else happened...to be honest I couldnt wait to get rid of her...because all she did was slag you off".
I was fuming not because he bought her a drink - not because I didnt believe him when he said `nothing happened`.
The reason I was `angry` is because she was slagging me off - and telling people I was mad and mentally ill.
I knew julie spread those lies about me between 2005-2009...but didnt realise she was still doing it.
What julie didnt know - and Dave didnt let on - cos he`s one of the `good guys` is that we`ve met many times since 2005.
Before yesterday we last met leading up to Xmas 2012 - that time - Dave pulled up in a flash top of the range black sports car. The boy is obviously doing well.
The `Gospel Truth` is that up until yesterday I had not told Dave anything about julie`s porn movies or polaroid pictures.
I am not a `gossip` - I dont mind writing about julie`s porn movies...that`s like showbiz...plus I`m a writer - and the truth is those films were a major part of our 15-year marriage. The truth is Julie enjoyed making them just as much as me.
The fact is I cant write my autobiography and not mention writing, producing and directing julie in porn films like `Basildon Babe` , `Dirty Dancing` . `Escort Girl` and `Naked House Tour`...but I don`t like `talking` about them `face to face`.
I find it both embarrassing and disloyal.
I find there is a big difference between writing about history and talking about it - `spilling the beans` verbally...genuinely makes me feel like I am being dis-loyal to julie.
But yesterday I told Dave everything - as I was fuming about her still calling me `mad` , `mentally ill` and saying I`d cracked up and had a breakdown.
We chatted for almost a hour so I told Dave everything about her porn movies...the polariods...pervert pimp grimson, her various affairs and handing naked pictures of herself into Basildon Police Station...I left `no stone unturned`.
He laughed out loud...when I said the Police spread out on the desk all these porno pictures and asked "Mr Johnson do you recognise this woman?" and I replied "Well yes...I was married to her for 15 years"
That always gets a laugh - as it did at the time from both coppers and my solicitor Ian Ashby.
And to prove Dave is what I call a `proper bloke` - unlike white muslim paul wellings - he did not ask to see any of the photos or try to buy a copy of Basildon Babe.
He didnt even ask for the name of the website that shows clips of her best performances.
Like I said Dave is a `gent` a Bethnal Green boy and `genuine Cockney geezer` - just like his mate and top comedian Mickey Flannagan.
The complete opposite to `plastic cockney` wellings - who went onto to `bed/shag` julie just months after we split.
The low-life scrounger who `never bought a round` begged me by phone and email for both porno pictures and videos of julie.
I revealed that fact about wellings in 2005, 2006 and 2007.
But Dave Alexander reacted just like Fergie, Steve Newton and Garry Bushell - when out of respect for me - also did NOT ask to see any of julies porno performances.
I know people will suspect I am `gullable` and maybe thinking Dave was only telling me what I wanted to hear...but I am a good judge of character...and the bloke would not `cross the line` of f***ing a mates wife...or even the ex-wife of a friend.
Also Dave had not seen my message on FB...and was not aware of the information that had been given to me on Wednesday.
Our meet was pure `chance` - plus it was he who revealed within minutes of us meeting that he`d seen julie in a night club and bought her a drink.
Dave said he didnt `get off with her` and I believe him - to be honest the only time I felt any emotion...showed any feelings for julie...or reacted...was when he made what I considered an offensive remark.
I could feel my face change...my eyes go strange...I could tell Dave noticed the change in my persona - so I quickly made a jokey comment.
What had his mate said to offend me?
Dave said
"I was with 4 mates from the gym - and because she was going `on and on` slagging you off - one said "tell her to fuck off` - another said `get rid of her...she aint that much anyway`. "
I dont know if I reacted out of `loyalty` to my ex-wife - or because I was offended that some c**t claimed a woman I`d always fancied/lusted after wasnt `that much anyway`. I took that criticism personally...as a sort of `dig at me`
The truth is...I dont like criticism...was I angry because of misplaced loyalty to the Basildon Babe - or because I considered it an `attack` on my ego - or a bit of both?
The fact is I did not like some bolshie bastard...a f*****g stranger slagging off the `looks` of my ex-wife.
Thats my job LOL - though to be honest - I never have - I would if she put on weight...grew a double-chin...got fat ankles or `lost` those lovely legs and cute bum...I`d be the first LOL.
But Dave said it was only her face and hair that had changed - which is why he didnt recognise her.
I believe him when he says "she was well pissed and all over me Gal...If I`d wanted to I could of had her...but I didnt"
He added
"a friend of one of my mates did get off with her...but because were mates I wasnt interested" adding "I`m sure all my mates would of been interested if they`d known about her porn films"
And joked - (and for the avoidance of any doubt, he was joking) "I`m interested now"
I replied in a jokey manner - and as Dave`s hair is even longer then mine - you`ll get the drift:
"You aint got no chance with that hair...she`s only into slapheads" adding "grimson was bald and so is the black boyfriend"
Dave "funny you should say that - the guy she got off with at Lords was bald"
The fact is I believed every word - so much so - that when he offered me a `weekend` in Brighton I agreed.
We exchanged new numbers and parted with a handshake.
It is my belief that Dave is `innocent` of all charges and the the victim of false allegations.
He has not been sleeping with my ex-wife...he is a `true friend`...unlike white muslim paul wellings.
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